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female
age
30-35,
*ulu55
writes:There's a guy that I've met who is really nice and I enjoy spending my time with. We have the same interests and he's great to be around. BUT I'm starting to feel that he's very clingy. If we are alone he kisses me which I don't mind but he never takes his hands off me! And I like my space! And when I tell him to stop he gets defensive and says "ok fine I'm never going to kiss you again" so I said ok fine. But that lasts for 5 minutes. I like to just hangout, and he doesn't see that. And I got to sleep at 11 pm an he will call ne at 12:30 or 1 and I'll be asleep and won't answer and he'll text me after, saying that I never pick up and e can't sleep because he's thinking about me. How do I make him stop being so clingy!? It's irritating me now!
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (8 December 2011):
 Once a guy-friend (or a girl-friend) get clingy and irritating it's time to dump him or her and get a better one....
Good luck....
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (8 December 2011):
 You need to be consistent with him. Much like training a puppy... you reward the proper behavior and punish the bad behavior.
Basically when he touches you, you remove his hands and step away and say to him "I've asked you not to touch me and I mean it, please respect this and if you can't then our time together today is over" and then the next time he touches you in the same "date" you get up and leave saying "I'm sorry I told you if you could not respect my wishes I had to leave and now I'm leaving, I'll see you next time"
And when he says the defensive sarcastic "fine I'll never kiss you again" I'd just look at him and go "promises promises" and keep on doing what I was doing...
TURN YOUR PHONE OFF when you go to sleep.
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reader, N91  +, writes (8 December 2011):
 You tell him exactly what you've just told us.Good luck
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