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writes:Your Open QuestionShow me another » Serious boyfriend troubles?I need some help please. I've been with my partner for 4 years and at the weekend we had a big row and now he is moving out of the house. He is currently sleeping on the couch and will be there for another week. I really don't want him to leave but he seems determined to go. I thought he was playing games but he seems to be serious now about going..I just don't know what to do. I have apologised to him, I've told him I loved him and it doesn't seemed to have changed his mind.I am devastated and i don't know how to cope with this pain.Any advice would be grateful!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI've told him how I feel that I love him to bits and don't want him to leave. I have practically begged him. I have text him, e-mailed him and then I snet him a final text this morning asking him if he is a million percent sure he wants to go. He test me back and just said yes. He said he will leave next weekend when I am on a hen weekend in London. I don't know what else I can do to let him know how I feel.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe had been bickering for a while, just the usual stupid arguements over who cleans up or who does the cooking. I love him so much I just don't beleive he's going. I don't think he has thought this through properly. He is being really nice to me at home but in the mean time he is telling me all his plans about moving out and what he is taking. I'm trying to stay cool but I am finding it hard not to burst in too tears.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (1 April 2009):
You have to give us more information.
This can't just be about one row. This is something he must have thought about doing for a while.
Crying and pleading is not going to work.
You have to get strong and let him go. The old phrase is true. If it's love then he'll realise as soon as he's gone and will come back. But if he truly wants to go and end this then you have to face that and it will be horrible but women through the ages have been through it and you will get over him eventually.
Try and stay strong and think practically about what you are going to do.
Good Luck!! xx
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