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writes:Hi i am 20 years old and in my life i've gone through ALOT of stuff starting from when i was 12, anyways i've gone through alot of stuff since then.but my main concern is my sister!we used to be so close when she went to University this was away so she wasn't home as often. anyways we became really close and talked about stuff shared things but now she is at home and everything has gone down hill since Uni really her weight! she is really oddly thin!she is 5ft 11 and size 8! really isn't heathly and she still think's she is fat!i'm alot bigger than her and if i get a bit depressed about my weight she tells me like pretty much to stop eating! as i have a food disorder which only allows me to have a certain amount of protein in my diet everyday so i am really very restricted as it is.my nan and aunty have also told me that apparently she is very highly jealous of me because she thinks that everyone loves and doesn't love her which of course isn't the case. now that she is home as well she is really horrible to me and i know sisters are alot!but this is like all the time!it's like i had some time off work and the first thing she says is what you doing here?like i'm not allowed to be home! and if i ask her something but she can't hear me for whatever reason she gets really very ratty!also she has a habit of rubbing her stomach! like all the time!but she never ever eats!seriously!the most she will have is a cup of soup.now when she says things to me like "does this make me look fat?"i always say no! if you think you're fat you really have a problem but she thinks nothing of it!she also has reinards with is like thinning of the blood it doesn't like flow to the ends of her fingers and toes properly and at her age which is 22 shouldn't be happening!i've run out of things to do!i can't talk to her anymore!like she just isn't my sister anymore!i can't tell her anything!she argued with me on my birthday! saying i never smile1when i do i am always a really happy person!but she says things like that and upsets me!and also we were out at a meal before and she shouted at me with my family there because i didn't say thank you to a waitress when i did.she also wants us to do all our family traditions like at christmas time and easter time but when she is there she just sits on her phone texting her mates! and when she is with her friends she is fine!but with family she's just so horrible.i don't know what i can do!i really don't like her anymore she just isn't my sister!i've no idea what to do!!Can anyone please give me advice?i am always the one who gets told everything like family wise because no-one can talk to her because she is just so spiteful and mean.its too much to handle on my own!please help mei have no one else to talk to anymore :(i really appreciate your replies!
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