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writes: Dear Anyone,I have problem with my superior, I realised that he is fond of me and it happened for abt almost 2 years, thru body language and eye contacts and its obvious, his eyes are following me whenever I was moving around the room, he looked into my eyes and blushed and thing like that...The problem is that I don't feel comfortable to start an office romance, esp he is my immediate boss, it could be awkward if things doesn't work, perhaps Im too conservation and too conscious how ppl look at me...At times, I noticed he msn or icq with friends or girls, he is good-looking i really feel insecure since he is still single ofcourse he has the right to make friends with anyone but I do feel uncomfortable, whether is he sincere to me or just flirting??? I have too many ??? in my mind that stop me from accepting him with open arms, till now I can still caught him watching at me, am I stupid to stop to hide my feeling, some of my friends advised me, if he is serious he should have date me out already, I better think twice, well...all the while Im giving him the cold shoulder, and won't smile at him when he looked at me, perhaps Im giving him the impression that I don't like him at all, am I right?Anyone can you guide me what should I do, Im very tired already, esp everyday we have to face each other in term of work......P.S. Im a shy person, I won't approach him and askLost lost lost :( Thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2006): Hello girl, I am happy to advice you on this difficulties you are passing through, I think I have had this experience as well. Most of those men as a boss with girl in the office never love a girl sincerely, and even though this guy you are talking about really love you, the ways of his ways of operating with you in the office will tell of that to you, please I will advice that you think twice, you dont just jump into friendship just b/cos he look you as if he was in love with you, and if he really does he will call you and tell you about how he feel about you. But although he may be real for you but you just have to try your best to make sure is real and not those the after sex. I think this will help you to over the man in your office.
Best luck
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