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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend is pushing me away because he is sick. He was there for me and saw me almost die last year when i was sick. He is going through a nasty divorce and his kids have already chosen the other side. He says he can't choose me over them because he can handle not being sick without family and love me but he can't be sick and live with out the support of his family. We have been together for almost a year and i love him so much. He won't answer the phone or talk to me says he doesn't want to see him sick and I just so despirataly want to help him through his trial as he helped me. I know our relationship isn't conventianl but i can't help it i love him. Even if we have to be friends (his words) please help me i just want to be by his side through all this. he says hes in the way of my dreams and future and all i can think about is our future together.Plese help???
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reader, anitaw4 +, writes (21 April 2009):
Well what is he sick with?? You just never know if when a guy says he wants to be friends if it means, i like you but dont get too attached or if he is feeling inadaquate or is he hidding something??? Its a tough one. I am a firm believer of following your gut intuition. It kinda sounds as though he hasnt quite given up his old life. I think I would let things ride for a bit, see what happens with his kids and ex. Let him know how you feel and that you are there for him. See what happens maybe give him some space. Maybe he really is trying to do you a favor, who knows, watch, talk and learn...
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