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Who do I choose -- boring & dependable or dynamic with a temper?

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Question - (21 April 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 21 April 2009)
A female Australia, anonymous writes:

I need direction: Man #1 Sweet, polite, compassionate, treats me like gold. A real gentleman BUT I am not attracted to him, there is no sexual chemistry and we have nothing in common. In fact I sometimes find him to be a bit boring, but I know he'd take care of me and love me forever. Guy #2 Interesting, funny, smart, great chemistry, lots in common BUT has a terrible temper when he's under stress and is a total male chauvenist. Then there's Option #3 to remain single and alone, knowing I may never find anyone who I will enjoy being with. Plus at 49 years of age I will have to compete with women half my age for the attention of an intersting man and guess what? they will probably win him. Plus I am fearful of being alone so Option #3 is not really an option for me at all. What should I do?....

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009):

You're settling for less! I know I'm being idealistic, but you shouldn't have to be compromising what you want for any guy!

;-)

-GG

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A female reader, SirenaBlusera Mexico +, writes (21 April 2009):

SirenaBlusera agony auntI'm not saying all males are abusers, but I am saying that a guy who is a chauvinist and temperamental... possesses a dangerous combination of qualities.

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A female reader, SirenaBlusera Mexico +, writes (21 April 2009):

SirenaBlusera agony auntIf you're not sure you want him, I wouldn't rush into anything, because you might hurt him if you were to lead him on.

However, does this guy have a temper or is he abusive?

That's what worries me. I have a temper but I'm not abusive. However, I'm neither male nor am I a chauvinist. I sense that there's more to the story with this guy.

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