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female
age
30-35,
*aura L.
writes:Hello everyone!Last week I was hangin out with one of my best firend (he is guy). He took me to the really beautiful caffe bars and lounge bars and for a walk. We are friends for like over 5 years and I kinda always felt somethig more because we ge get along very well, we are both ambitious, we share taste in music and almost everythig and yeah, I think we could be a good couple. The thing is, we are both shy on extreme level, at least when it comes to admitting emotions and so on. I do like him, but I would be fine with only friendship because losing him is out of quesion.So, yeah, last week we had a great time, he even teased me to sit into his lap in park (which i didnt do because i'm stupid i know), he said how beautiful my dress is and how lovely i look like (more than once) and as usual he walked me home. Last weekend we went clubbing together, we danced togehter of course etc etc.I'm confused because he is sending me mismatching signals (or I'm just the one who doubt too much so I always fear what if somethig negative turns out).What do you think? Have you ever been is situation like that?
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (11 May 2013):
I think most girls I have encountered in my past, whom I am still friends with, have always rejected my advances. If he is interested he would show you in subtle ways, after all, if he likes you it is only natural to do so without ruining a friendship. I think he is probably sending you signals that he likes you but if you are being so safe in not accepting his advances then well there isn't much more that can happen anyway.
Negative things don't always happen dear, no reason to let it control you.
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