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writes:Hey!! Ok...so I met this guy (he's 20) right at the end of summer and we kind of got together, went out a few times, and i really liked him....and i think he liked me too. SO..then he had to go back to uni (which is in Cardiff!!) and i'm still here at uni in London...but we both liked each other so we agreed that we'd see how it goes...and not end it. It was fine for the first 6 weeks...and i'd even booked tickets to go and see him in early November...but then a few days before i was supposed to go and see him...he text me and told me that he was having second thoughts and that we should just be friends. Tbh...i was quite surprised....but he said he didn't want to be tied down to someone he only saw rarely...which i understand. So, it was over. But....then he dragged it out the whole week...and everyday i would get contradicting statements....where he was like 'you should come and we can see how it goes and give it a go'...so i was really confused...but in the end i didnt go to Cardiff....coz the day before he was like 'i dont think it's gonna work'. So..again it was over.BUT...then the next day and since then he text me again basically saying that he likes me...And...the thing is that i DO like him too...so then i text him saying..'look we can make this work....i could make more of an effort and come to Cardiff more often to see you etc etc...and he replied back saying...'Dont u think you're getting a bit carried away? We've gone out a few times and now u wanna move to Cardiff'....which is NOT what i meant...but it was quite emabarassing so i didnt reply coz i didnt know what to say...and then he text me an hour later saying...'if u come visit we can see how it goes'...SO now i'm really confused coz i dont know what to do..i know he's confused too...probs more than me...and he does like me...and i DO like him too...but i really dont know what to do or say now...Especially after the 'getting carried away' comment....i'm really embarrassed...and i dont actually know how to go about this...so please help....thanks in advance :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey!! Thanks guys for the advice...and yes i agree...that i do need to talk to him. Its just that i don't actually know what to say...coz clearly he's confused too...and plus i'm really embarassed after the whole 'getting carried away' comment...so i dont actually know WHAT to say bearing in mind that i DO like him..and i dont wanna end it if there is a way that it can work out... What do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2009): i think hes very confused, as much as u are. u guys should call and talk it out rather than text. a conversation can go a long way (: good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2009): sorry, this guy sounds like an asshole, playing games. Ignore him, and trust me you will find someone better =]
Dont waste your time and effort on this loser
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