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writes: hi this is my first posting. i was with a man for 4yrs and we split up because his kids mother wouldn't stop harrasing us. it's been five years since then and that was my last real relationship, we were engaged and i bumped into his brother last week and he told me that he's marrying his kids mother, i gave him a terrible look and he replied that she has been the only one there for him while he was in prison. i dont know what to do i can't stop thinking about him. He told me although she had two of his children he never fell in love with her for, but because she is the mother of his children, they were together for twelve yrs before he left her for me. what do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2006): I concur with Smeedle. There is absolutely nothing you can do. It's obvious that in the past 5 years, they've found each other again and are building a family life together with their children. Love is about two people choosing to be with each other thru tough times and to help support each other. Looks like she did this for him. Perhaps, prison was a wake-up call for him to think about life's blessings. Who knows? Perhaps he came out a more gracious, appreciative person. Prison is hell...it changes people-sometimes to the positive. For his ex to be there for him, all that time, tells me she loved him, unconditionally and is deserving of his love. Leave them both alone. It's over. Now get out there and savor life and have fun. Accept this and move forward with your life. Believe in yourself and happiness will happen for you. I wish you the best, hun Take care
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (23 February 2006):
 Get over him, he is making a go of it with his ex and you are well out of the picture, let them get on with it, for better or worse.
You need to leave him in the past and start seeing someone else there are plenty of nice blokes out there and one will be right for you.
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