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writes:i like this guy at school but hes really really really popular, popular enough to make a girl he dated for 8 months the most popular girl in school! and everyone evnvies her but i dont want that, id rather not be popular im happy the way i am but hes the perfect guy he talks to me online someitimes but im african-indian but british born and hes english so theres also that, i dont care what race he is but im not sure if he would care or not. i know him as hes in my year in school. we're both 14 and i know hes into commitments. i just cant stop thinking about him every time i see him my heart melts! i like him so much! but its like a 99% chance that he would reject me because theres rules in the popular clique where u cant go out with anyone thats not popular. and hes with his friends all the time theyre most likely gonna put him off me and may not even like me but i cant get over him..this is no crush! pls help mex
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2007): Well, it has been a long time since I was your age, but I think the rules for dating a popular guy are still the same, there are none....if you like each other and want to go out on a date then it does not matter what any one else thinks most of all the so called popular clicque....
Just be yourself and be his friend, that is all you can do until he makes a move to ask you out...don't worry about becoming popular, being popular should mean that you have a lot of friends who like you and that you are nice to everyone you meet, not that you are better than other people who are less socially active....it is all up to you and how you handle yourself.
But don't be dissappointed if he just wants to be your friend for now, you never know how things will turn out, next week you could meet another fantastic fellow that will make your heart melt! At your age, that is the way it is!
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