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writes:Hi so I want to know how to get my crush to like me Ok so I have had a crush on a guy and he is in a different grade (higher grade). Anyway I wouldn't say I am obsessed but whenever he looks at me whenever he goes or looks away I totally freak out. The problem is he barely knows me and a lot of other girls are crushing on him. I’m pretty sure that he doesn't have a Gf, and I want to get to know him better, but like I said he is in a higher different grade then me. I heard that he does know me and then one of my friends said straight up that I like him and he like lifted his chin and eyebrows with a tiny smirk on his face when he said that at least that's what I heard from the friend. Yes, and he is the one of the popular people in my school so yea. Please tell me how to get my crush to like me and for me not to be too afraid to like talk to him you know so yea. Thanks
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (2 April 2013):
 if lots of girls have a crush on him he'll be so full of himself he won't be bearable.
your crush is currently based on how he looks not how he acts since you don't really know him.
you can't make him like you
all you can do when you see him is smile and say "hi how's it going?" and just give him openings to talk to you.
I will tell you that having a crush on the popular boy in school is a sure fire way to break your heart.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (2 April 2013):
 You can't MAKE him like you. Either he does like you or he doesn't. It's that simple. However he seems to be flirting a little with you, so why not just play into that?
Next time he looks at you with a smirk, wink at him.
I wouldn't be to forward though, if he knows you like him he might just be enjoying the attention from a younger girl, so he could be toying with you.
Just be subtle. Say hi, smile but don't overdo it.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (2 April 2013):
I know you don't have the courage to since you're so young, but you need to talk to him. Be bold and don't be afraid.
It's not enough to say "I like you" to him; you have to ask him out... If you were gonna go to a party ask him to go with you. Whatever you want.
Don't be TOO BOLD, though. When I was your age girls loved me, and sometimes it felt like they were a little desperate.
Just find an innocent reason to hang out with him sometime. Ask him alone so you won't be embarrassed if he says no or tells you he has a girlfriend.
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