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writes: I saw this guy that I know. He asked for my number,so since he wasn't dating anyone and I wasn't I did. When he called we talked and he said he wanted to take me on a nice trip. He has been trying to have sex with me, but I'm not ready to be in a sex relationship right now. He has made plans to go on some of those trips he said he wanted to take me on but of course he's not taking me and I'm assuming its because I'm not having sex with him. That really hurts my feeling because I think two people still can have a good time together even if they are not having sex. I want to do that we someone that I love and he loves me. When ever we spend time together he still trys to sleep with me. He says he likes me , but I want someone who is looking for long term and he's wants to enjoy the moment and not be committed. He stop seeing me once and went out with a few other girls. He said he missed me and now we get together maybe twice a month. I think he is still looking for someone else and I don't have a problem with that as long as we are just friends but he always try to sleep with me. I don't sleep with people because I like them and I don't sleep with my friends. Should I stop dating him? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2010): I didn't say that he was taking other girls on the trip, but he has been seeing other girls. He is not taking me on the trip.
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (26 June 2010):
 By telling you he's taking other girls on those trips, he is manipulating you and putting pressure on you to have sex...hoping you will be upset enough or jealous enough to jump into bed with him.
Anyone who puts that much pressure on you, is not a sincere person and he will probably say just about anything to get you to co-operate.
Your a smart girl and you know your own mind...dump him and wait for someone more acceptable to come into your life.
If you do end up having sex with him...he will probably dissapear onto the next...and the next...and the next...
Don't fall for it darling...tell him to get lost.
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reader, bunny24 +, writes (26 June 2010):
if you r not ready 2 commit tell him if he does not listning dump him
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reader, nataliejanenat +, writes (26 June 2010):
well its a hard situation you are in go with what you feel is right. If all he wants is sex and you don't he is going to have to except it if he likes you. Have you told him how you are feeling ? if not try telling him that you are not ready for having sex at the moment you just want to take it slowly and if he doesn't listen then dump him.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (26 June 2010):
He's looking for sex. You're looking for more. He's either looking for someone else in the meantime. All he wants is sex. Really, that's a good enough reason for you to move on. Find a guy who isn't just out for sex. This one is
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