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female
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30-35,
*issmebabe
writes:when me and my boyfriend are doing foreplay i seem to get confused. we'll start off kissing, then he'll pleasure me. while doing this ill be 'touching' him but hes floppy?ill give him oral(after getting him hard again).....he wont let me do it long enough for him to cum. ill carry on touching him and we'll kiss etc again. i go back to his penis and its floppy again?am i doing something wrong?do i not turn him on? help :(
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reader, kissmebabe +, writes (12 December 2010):
kissmebabe is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you guys :)
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (3 November 2010):
 Being turned on and being erect = two different things. You can be turned on but not erect- (eg. under the influence of drugs/alcohol), erect but not turned on (eg. waking up with "morning wood") but ideally both at the same time :)
If you don't pay downstairs constant attention- he can lose interest and nod off, also erections can get painful for some guys if they stay hard for too long. Don't stress too much- if you didn't turn him on then he wouldn't be having sex with you in the first place- let alone be your boyfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2010): It's normal to not maintain an erection after no physical contact with his penis. If you're only kissing and he's touching you, yes, it's probably a turn-on for him, but honestly, contact is the only way to constantly maintain an erection.
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reader, shellygurlhun88  +, writes (3 November 2010):
Had this same exact problem with my ex. One of the reasons we actually ended up breaking it off. He just couldn't keep it up, and I would feel like I wasn't turning him on... I say tell your boy to go check out a doctor, he might be lacking in some nutrients which allows you to stay up. That's what was wrong with my ex. Or so he says. But it is in fact true.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2010): Hi!
He might have some past issues going on in his head or he's worried about performance and nervous and gets anxiety too. Im sure you turn him on def!!! I think the trouble is on his end. Talk to him and dig deeper! Good luck.
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