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anonymous
writes:i no this might sound a bit stupid but ive liked this guy for ages when i finally got with him i loved every moment and evrything about him but he dumped me just a few days later. now i feel heartbroken am i over reacting? i think about him all the time and i really want him back should i tell him how i feel? plz help
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2007): thanks alot for the advice xxx
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reader, chachacha +, writes (14 March 2007):
I'm so sorry for you.
Of course you're upset - you've been rejected. And what's worse, you can't have what you really wanted..... him.
You've seen a child screaming in the shop, when the mother won't let the child have the ice cream he wants? He thinks if he screams enough the mother will give in, and give him the ice cream.
He is the ice cream, and you want him, and no amount of screaming is going to get you this ice cream. Sorry.
You just have to let time take its course and after a while, you'll forget that ice cream and find a nicer one. You will, honestly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2007): I think this is why my parents made the rule to not seriously date until I was 16 and even then, no long term dating.
To help one mature to a better understanding of themselves and the world, to not fall into the early pitfall of engaging in sexual activity, and to avoid unnecessary heartache and pain.
Dating should not be so painful.
I say you may be putting more meaning and feeling unto a boy you knew for three days-stop this cycle of giving too much and "loving" too much now and just accept that you are still not emotionally ready to date.
Best Wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2007): Firstly having your heart broken by someone who you like dumping you is normal. Secondly don't tell him how you feel as he's most likely to reject you and it will hurt you even further down the line. Just move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2007): How old are you? Sorry but you sound quite young and you will go through a lot of these types of situations in life. Boys especially don't seem to know what they want at an early age (some even when they get older!). You will have lots of relationships and up and downs in life. Just walk away from this one and put it down to past experience. Don't run after him. Head up high girl and go forward.
Take care and keep in touch if you want.
xx
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reader, Angel-Face +, writes (14 March 2007):
 I no how you feel iv been dumped abut 2 times but getting back to you, Your not over reating that how every girl feels when she gets dumped but if you still like this lad send him a note or a text message when hes alone or do what i do play hard to get iv had lots of boyfriends and they still come running back hope it helps
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