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writes:My boyfriend and i have known each other for several years. he recently has discussed marraige and children with me and wants me to move in. His exwife contacted him asking for his help to get off drugs so he decided to help by moving her in with him for a month. He told me today that he is considering forgiving her for her cheating on him and running off a couple months after they were married. He says he loves me and has not made a decision. i have met her and she is manipulative and decietful and i believe is poisoning him. I dont know what to do i love him with all my heart and leaving him may push him to her where she will hurt him again. What should i do
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe moved her here to our state. He has recently said that he doesnt want to be with her but i dont know. i have talked with her and she says she has moved on with her life and doesnt want to be with him. This morning he was looking at the cost of sending her to her family. How do i know if i can trust him. She has told me that he talks about how much he loves me and cares for me. He doesnt tell me too much and says it is because he thinks that i dont need the reassurance and that i am strong. i feel depressed cause i love him and am lost in this web. Should i wait and see what happens i dont really know what to ask him or how to without making him upset.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2007): If he's moved back in then why are you hanging around? I would of ran like hell!! You cannot live in a triangle, it just doesn't work and it isn't fair on you, you do deserve better. He is trying to help her out, WHAT ABOUT YOU! It is up to you but i wouldn't be to chuffed! Tell him how you want it to be and don't beat around the bush. If he still want to help her, then let him, by himself!
Take care and remember we only live once so don't hang around and waste your life!!
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2007): Seems like he's been using you on a rebound status. Does he have kids with her? Drugs? What type of drugs? Illegal? Medication? Girl, sit down with him and have a serious talk. If he continues to feel that way, move on.
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