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anonymous
writes:I have liked this guy for awhile. We work together and have been flirting constantly for months. Well, about a month ago, I drove him home and he kissed me. Since then I have been trying to start something, but he is busy nearly everyday after work and has to care for his mother on the weekends. He still flirts with me at work, but he hasn't been available for a date. Am I being paranoid, or was this just a one time thing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2007): I would play it cool and wait and see what happens. In the meantime if you meet someone else then go with the it. Don't chase after him, he sounds like he has too many relation commitments to be able to withstand a relationship. Stay friends and enjoy the flirting, if you want, but i would be very cool with this one.
Take care
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reader, kenny  +, writes (5 March 2007):
 I think this guy does like you as he still flirts with you in the office. He could either be shy, scared of rejection, or it could be he is trying to keep it proffesional as the two of you work together.
I think the kiss in the car meant something, and this was your green light to let you know his feelings torwards you.
Keep the flirting going with him, give him lots of eye contact and smiles ect. Maybe ask him out to lunch one day.
Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2007): At best, he really doesn't have the time for a serious relationship with you. He seems to like you, but his family obligations and his busy schedule doesn't give him much time for himself let alone a relationship. Perhaps he's leery of having a serious relationship ie. what if it doesn't work out? or what if I can't give her the time and attention a relationship needs?
By all means, stay friends with him, maybe you can go out for lunch together at least. Maintain the flirty comraderie, get to know him. Maybe he'll think that a relationship will be a boon rather than another burden. At the same time, however, keep your options open.
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