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writes: i have been with my boyfriend for a year.when we 1st met,we had been both hurt before.he has told me once that he loved me, but since has kept his feelings to himself.he's not interested at all in the bedroom, unless i make all the moves.he can be very moody, and grumpy,and it is hard which way to take him.i have never been so held back with my feelings, being out going and bubbly,i find it hard to be myself in front of him,and i feel unwanted and lonely in the bedroom.i do love him,[ but not in love with him].he can be funny, fun to be with,kind and caring,and i know he cares about me,but i don't know what to do to make things different and better? Reply to this Question
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reader, rosebud +, writes (11 April 2006):
rosebud is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all for your advise, i have tried to talk to him, but he would never let me finish what i wanted to say, and won't give me a striaght answer to anything?I've asked about the bedroom? and all i got was he's to tired, and he won't make love to me because of my girls being in the house? [never stopped him before?]i know he is still hurting over his ex, but she was having an affair, and moved the other gay in 2 weeks later!!he said that if he didn't want to b with me, he wouldn't b with me?????? i'm totally guttered, and feel used?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2006): I think u should talk to him and check whether he is having doubts about your relationship. My boyfriend went a bit moody but i just thought maybe that was just how he could be sometimes. Turned out he wasn't happy with 'us', i would never of suspected that if he hadn't told me. I thought he cared about me too. I also had problems being my usual jolly self when he was all miserable. Sucks doesn't it!
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (7 April 2006):
 Dearie, if u feel the need to remain in this relationship then perhaps u should have a chat with him and tell him how u feel. personally i feel that if u arent in love with him and your personalities clashes with his then why do u want to be with him?You have to think about what u indeed want from a guy and a relationship. you arent at all happy being in this one and personally i feel u should be with someone that you can be yourself with.
Hope i helped abit. take care and Goodluck.
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