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writes:Every time I try to break it off with my boyfriend he says and does the sweetest things and I forget what I what am about to say... And if I get through it he just get me so mad at myself (which is unusual) cause am I person who hardly gets upset and has a cheerful personality.. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2013): Are you really serious about breaking up, or are you just upset about something; and using it as a threat? Stop crying wolf!!!You don't provide any details of why you want to breakup; so there's nothing to go by. What's to say you're not just being dramatic just to manipulate him to behave a certain way?If he cheats, or abuses you physically or verbally. You must make him take you seriously and end it. Discontinue contact and any association completely. If you can't get along without a lot of fights and arguments, and he doesn't show you respect; you have to stand your ground and put a definite end to it. Sweet-talk is silly. You shouldn't let him get away with that. When he does it, he's making a fool of you. That means he has no respect for you as a person, or your feelings. While you're trying to be serious, he just brushes it aside. Show him you mean business.Either you're just being a drama queen, or you're trying to show your maturity. Which is it?
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