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writes:My ex-boyfriend want me back. I'm 15 years old and he is 26. We met online 2 years back. We started dating when I was 14. After some months he started ignoring me. When we talked last time he told me that his parents are looking girl for him. I was depressed, I needed him the most that time but from next day he switched off his phone and I found out that he blocked me on facebook. I was moving on. But, I got his e-mail saying that He was in India ( his home ) And he is busy. I took him back. He said that he is single. We started talking on phone again but He was not giving me time. He used to call me whenever he like and When i needed him he wasn't there for me. He added me back on facebook. We were in relationship.I made a fake id and I asked him if he is single, he said that he is single.. I broke-up with him the next day. I told him that I'm done and he said ok you can leave me. I left him and I changed my number.2 days back, He came back again. I was online on facebook today. He is begging me to talk, He want to talk to me. He says he loves me. I still love him. But I'm scared to go back and get hurt again. I'm confused about my feelings. I want to go back to him but what is our future? He will visit me this year. He wants to meet me. After break-up when he came back. today he said that he is not busy now. And he will tell me everything. Should I call him ? Should I go back to him? Should I give second chance to our relationship? Please help me :"( I have to decide today. He gave me 1 day. :(
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (18 June 2011):
 No I don't think that you should go back to him. He is so much older than you and you are still not legally an adult. He will only mess with your head and probably try and talk to other girls on line behind your back. He is a liar and you cannot trust him. Block him and delete his number and move on with your life. You will be so much happier in the end.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2011): I was in the same position when I was 16, seeing a man who was 25. He acted the same way to me. Disappeared for days, one day he loved me the next day he didn't want me. I loved him and I stayed with him until I ended up getting pregnant by him. After that I didn't hear from him again. I was devastated. I loved him to death, and I thought he loved me. It's obvious that all he loved was taking my virginity and having the ability to trick me.I hope that you really listen to this advice. The man does not love you. He's using you. When he's lonely he'll settle for you because he knows that you are stuck on him. The fact that he gave you one day to decide shows that he's controlling and doesn't really care about you at all. You already know it in your heart or you wouldn't even be asking. You will feel much better over time if you drop him now. Believe that. If you decide to be with him again you'll only be more hurt and angry with yourself. I completely relate to what you are feeling right now because I was in the same shoes. It seems like you will never love any one else. That's a trick that our young mind plays on us. The truth is that if you dump him now, you'll be so happy that you did by the time you turn 18. The pain doesn't last forever... unless you allow him to stay in your life. He will continue to hurt you as long as you let him.You need to understand that your life is too precious to devote to someone that disregards it. Find something to do so that you don't focus on him. Remove him as a Facebook friend and change your number. The future you will thank you. God knows, I wish I had done that in my own situation.
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