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writes: heya xxxxxi go to my rugby club twice a week wiv my mates. just recently the boy i fancied has quit rugby and now i am never gonna c him again! we used to go out but then he dumped me cos it really wasnt workin out, we were too young.i didnt try an get over him tho cos i knew tht we would go out again, i just knew. but now he has left i dont know what to do! :( i am depressed so i am wonderin what to do. we are mates but obviously wont b anymore.should i email him to ask if he wants to meet up just as my mate sometime?is tht a good idea?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2006): If you feel there is a future then why not give it a go. Take it slow and steady, and dont come on too strong. Maybe give it a week or two and ask if he would like to meet up for old times sake or something. If you do meet up, dont force it, relax and see if there is any chemistry. If there isnt then maybe you werent meant to be, and by not seeing him will make it a lot easier to get over him. I know this will be hard, but hopefully you have supportive mates/family and there will be others!
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