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writes:I live with my boyfriend of 2 and half years. My daughter has recently had trouble and needs my help, she wants to come and stay with me and my other three kids and my boyfriend said no way, it's bad enough having three in the house never mind another two. You see she has a baby I told him no matter what, my kids come first and he said he is going to leave now. I love him but above all my children come first no matter what else happens. I am right in what I say arn't I? Please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, Wild Thaing  +, writes (16 July 2007):
 It is not for any of us to tell you if your decision is correct. But if you can live with and take responsibility for the consequences of your choices, then you will never make the wrong decision.
I hope it all works out for you. Good luck and take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2007): of course your kids come first. you are totally in the right. he is being childish, attention seeking and self absorbed. maybe use the time that he's out of the house to consider whether you really want someone like that in your life
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2007): Definitely. Let him go. How inmature of him. You should also tell your other kids that they should also help one another. If your daughter is in need they should understand is their responsibility as a family to help her as well. Teach them to be cooperative and sensitive to the needs of others. This world doesn't need more self centered people.
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reader, love-him +, writes (15 July 2007):
 Hey bbe,
You are completely in the right, he should not expect anything different than that!! If he leaves, then that is his fault not yours! You stick by ur kids bbe!!
I hope i helped & good luck =)
Mail me if you would like to talk x
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reader, sweeite +, writes (15 July 2007):
I agree with you kids should always come 1st and your partner should know that, plus it aint forever its only for a while. it will hurt but let him go and in time he will realise that what he did was stupid and wrong. is there any were eles your daughter can go????????????? i dont have kids of my own but i have been bought up to understand that you should always put your kids 1st hope i have helped and good luck.blesstake care
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