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writes:My friend has been going out with this girl for about a month and I really don't see it going anywhere. I sort of have an on-off crush type thing going on. I don't know what to do about it. Maybe I should ignore it? I thought the girlfriend would take care of my problem and I could get on with my life, but no! He's in the back of my head like 24/7 and it's really annoying. Any ideas would be great! thanks :]
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reader, Artistry +, writes (23 January 2009):
 Hi there, I am glad you feel the things I said to you are helpful. Improve your self and grow, this will help you in the very long run. Nobody but nobody, in my opinion, will take that which is going to be yours, believe that, and go on your way rejoicing. Stay in touch, and be good to yourself. Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthose are great ideas!!! thanks so sooo much :D
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reader, Artistry +, writes (23 January 2009):
Hi, I think I would just wait it out without telling him. It would seem to me that if you told him that, you would confuse the issue between him and his current girlfriend or friend. Let them go along with their relationship, see where it goes, stay out of it, and if they do break up, I would not rush in, because people need a little time to get people out of their system. If you are meant to be together, it will happen. You don't want to be the rebound woman, which may go nowhere. I would busy myself with my life and things that would keep me busy, instead of concentrating on where they are as a couple. Get a new hobby, join a club, do something different which will broaden your horizons. He is not the only man in the world or your town that you are going to be attracted to. Wait until you really get to know him and the things that he will do that will aggraviate you. All of us are prone, to make perfect that which we cannot have at the moment. :o)
Take care, stay in touch. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2009): This probably means that you like this guy quite a bit. But your going to have to wait until they break up before you make you're move. You can tell him that you like him but he might think that your trying to steal him away from his girl. If the girl does find out about your feelings then she will probably try and tell the guy that you are a (insert nasty comment of your choice) and try to get him to hate you. So tell him how you feel about him and leave it at that until they break up and then ask him out. That's probably the best bet
Hope this helps!
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