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He's hurt me so many times, is it best to end things?

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Question - (15 June 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 June 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I went out with this guy for almost a year but we've been talking for two years. At first everything was so perfect and he was so sweet...

but as time went on he started lying to me and being a little too flirty with other girls

we would get into arguement a lot... and he would just give up on the relationship and we would break up but then he would text and call me, trying to get me back

My friends don't really like him because he hurt me so many times. He always said he was different but he acts the same

I feel like giving up... I think that's the best... but i don't know what to do... Please help!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2011):

This happend to me and here is some helpful hints !!!!

1:Tell him you dont want your heart to break again and say if he breaks up with you again your done !!

2:If you see him flirting with a girl let that girl know you are dating him and tell your boyfriend you dont apprectiate when he is flirting with girls!!!

Also my boyfriend cheated on me for 2 months and i had no idea maybe ask the girls he flirts with and ask them if he asked them out or anything like that!

Also follow what your friends say! I almost lost a friendship from a boy !!! Friends Before Boy-Friends

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A male reader, Partyboy123 Canada +, writes (16 June 2011):

Partyboy123 agony aunthey,

i have been in a similar situation with my ex-girlfriend. I broke things off because it was really one sided and unfair to me, and i always got pushed aside for other things that were less imports (friends, tv shows, parties)... basically, here is where i stand now.

1. Figure out if that person is worth dating A.S.A.P.

2. ask yourself if you are willing to put up with the B.S (bull****)

3. make your decision from there...

my mother always told me, if you have doubts early in the relationship, move on and find someone else.....

honestly, you don't need to go through with all of that crap, i could only put up with it for so long (we dated for 5.5 months, we fought for the last 3.5), until i couldn't take it anymore.

hope i helped,

no matter what your decision is, it'll be the right one for you.

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