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writes:So in my first serious relationship, and no complaints on his part so far. He's pretty cute, extremely nice and considerate, even buys me random gifts from time to time. However, whenever he compliments me, or does something nice for me, i know i should feel happy but deep down i feel extremely sad. I dont really understand it. Even after we kiss, and i have a smile on my face, it feels like there is a heavy weight in my chest. I dont get it. I have a great person who seems to really like me and care aboute me. I havn't told him i feel this way.I'm not a very open person with my feelings and tend to keep things bottled up, but i have no triffles with him so i dont understand why such negativity is materialising in this way. Been going out for just 1 month so far. Unless this issue is resolved or at least understood in the near future it feels wrong to keep the relationship going, kind of like im emotionally stringing him along even though i do like him. I feel like i am dystunctional. Reply to this Question
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reader, schrorac  +, writes (27 May 2012):
 well it may be that you dont love him, you may be thinking of somone else unconsencsy.
i have had the same issue its usually that you like somone else or your just not ready for a relationship.not trying to say anything bad about you though. hope this helps though its from a kid
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