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writes: Thanks for taking the time to listen and help me with my problem. This has been stressing me out for the past week. My boyfriend feels confused about a long distance relationship but i have convinced him to try making it work. My boyfriend just graduated and is moving 4 hours away. We've been together for over a year and recently he met this nice girl that lives close to where he is moving. They both thought that it would be nice to have a friend when he moved down there. The thing is, they have only known each other for about a week and they talk everynight- sometimes longer than he talks to me on the phone. Of course we always see each other but still. She has a boyfriend and he was upset as well that the two are talking but they still talk and plan to be great friends. How do i know that she wont try to do anything if i trust him so much? he seems to be getting annoyed with me but we broke up for a day and both decided that we loved each other too much to be apart. How can i make myself sure that nothing will happen? Do you think i should get to know her before i jump to conclusions?thanks againsoftball39
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reader, kirstylouise  +, writes (2 August 2006):
Situations like this a very hard to deal with - however i think your right when you say that you think you should get to know her better - you never know the two of you might become better friends than what she is with your boyfriend. If you trust him you need to hold onto that thought, it is very easy to think is he isn't he, but whats the point in wasting time and energy worrying about something that might never happen. I think you should get to know her and take it from there - always listen to your gut instinct. If you believe in him - then do it wholely if you dont then you need to rethink your relationship. After all what do you have if you dont have trust? I hope the situation works for you. take care xx
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