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30-35,
*ove_hurtz
writes:This is probably a silly question. There's a guy in my class - I'm friends with him and his girlfriend. We hang out a lot after school, sometimes all three of us, sometimes just me and him. I'm not looking to be his girlfriend or anything, because I'm not into ruining other people's relationships, but I am wondering whether he's showing signs of being attracted to me or if he just sees me as a really good friend...because I really can't tell. On the one hand, he's happy in his current relationship, and I'm happy for both of them. But at the same time, he texts me all the time and is constantly telling me I deserve a guy that treats me right, because I've been kind of into this guy who doesn't treat me so well for a while now. He also tells me I'm pretty and scoffs whenever I say there's something wrong with me....and whenever it's just me and him, I really do think he flirts with me...like calling our hanging out a date or jokingly telling his friends we're going to a romantic spot to hang out for the afternoon. And whenever I'm not in school, he begs me to come in, even if I don't have class, so he's not bored. Plus, he's always really close to me physically. Normally, I would take all of this as a sign he was a player, except that I'm the only girl he does any of this with, and he's really not the player type. He's actually quite distant from most women he meets, and doesn't have that many girl friends. Like I said, I'm really not looking to step into their relationship because I know he's happy and in love with his girlfriend. I'm just trying to figure out why he's like this with me, because I'm really not sure...
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (19 May 2011):
 Maybe he just really likes you as a friend and considers you one of his best friends. If he is happy in his relationship and in love well then good for him, it is possible for him just to really care for you as a friend so dont over think things.
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