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writes: Me and my partner have been together 1 yr on 26-04-05 and we were until 4 wks ago living together quite happily, or so I thought. I have a son of 6 months, and me and my partner have been together since I was 12 wks gone. But just lately he has been acting strange, not wanting me to go places with him or without him. He moved out back to his mum's and doesn't seem to want to look after our son anymore. He was with me when I gave birth and has been amazing up until now. I don't know what to do. I hardly see him any more and he said I am demanding but it's only because I want us to be together. He said I have to choose between moving in together in our own place or celebrating our anniversary, but why should i? I've never had an anniversary before with anyone. I just want him to love me like I love him and I thought he did, but now I'm not too sure...
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (16 April 2005):
 Why in the world do you have to choose between moving in together into your own place and celebrating your anniversary? Why can't you do both?You aren't being demanding wanting to spend time with him like you used to before. Something is amiss here and you need to find out what it is. Will he talk to you? You need to discover what is going on in his mind. He seems to have distanced himself from you. It is almost as if something has happened in his life which is making him be this way.If he won't sit down and talk to you, write him a letter. Explain how you feel and express how you can't go on like this. It may be a bit like giving him an ultimatum but I don't think you have much choice.You may have to consider the possibility of him not being in your life anymore as he is acting so strangely. You have to think of that as an eventuality. This won't be easy to contend with but in order for you to gain the knowledge of what the problems are, you could encounter this as a result.I wish you all the best of luck.
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