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writes: My boo is away for 3 months, we've known each other for 3 yrs,we talk on the phone daily,will our relationship be the same when he gets back? Reply to this Question
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reader, melschatbox  +, writes (19 January 2007):
 If this is a one time thing...yes, things will probably be the same. If you two are apart longer than this ..then no your relationship will probably fail. I am married and in a long distance relationship. It has been 9 months that we've been living apart..he flys home once a month for about 6 days. When he comes home now..it's like we have to start getting to know one another all over again. Not to mention we're learning to live without each other and that's not a good thing. I wish you the best of luck. Communication is totally the key. And, my husband ..(can't blame just him..) sucks at long distance communication. He called just about everyday but nothin'was truly said. Anyway...keep your chin up.
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (21 December 2006):
 Probably, but how long is a piece of string? You cannot be certain! But the indicators of him in constant contact and missing you bode well.
Good luck hon.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2006): OF course you'll survive!! I did when my boyf went to Australia 4 2 months and we're better than ever now since he came home!!! It will all work out - even if your not talking on the fone every day and you are txting each other its just as good!!
The one thing I loved when my boyf was away wa cos of the time difference between us there was always a txt or 2 in the mornings when I woke up which was a great start to the day and put a smile on my face for the day...
Its not goin to be as bad as it seems!!! If you wanna talk I'm here any time!! Hope you have a great christmas and new year too...
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2006): Hey girl, I was in your shoes just over 2 months ago when my boyf was goin to Australia for 2 months!! The hardest part for me was the week he was goin and the first week after left!!!
But we stayed in touch via texts and calls (but even at that there wasn't too many of them either) which in a weird way prob helped as when I didn't hear his voice that often made it a bit easier to get on with things!
The only advice I can give you is, go out & enjoy yourself and don't sit in thinking of what he's doin or anything like that!! It worked for me! Things are soooo much more better now that he's home!!! It prob done us the world of good!!
IF you wanna talk to me any time - please feel free to cos I kno it helped me when my boyf was away too...
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reader, cupid_callin  +, writes (21 December 2006):
 yes ofcourse..don't worry..... if he talks to you on phone daily... then he surley cares ..... So just stay tension free.. :-)
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