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writes: My GF of 3 years is perfect except that she has always had problems with physical intimacy. I've brought it up, but things haven't improved. The old flame does it for me in a way my GF never has, but I don't know what I'd be getting myself into in a relationship with her. Should I stick with what I have, knowing that the intimacy situation won't get any better, or should I pursue something new with the possiblility of never finding something as good as what I have now? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2006): Dont be selfish. There is more to a relationship than sex, grow up. It will improve, and sit down and talk to her, its not fair to her that you are still even thinking about your ex. If you do choose your ex, then Im sorry for you, for what you have had with your current girl.
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (21 December 2006):
 i think that is the risk u have to be willing to take. u have something good right now but not satisfactory, no one can blame u under the circumstances, maybe u need to base ur decision on what u really need in a relationship, weigh the opportunities and if u figured u dontwant ur gf i suggest u dont waist anymore of her time tell her ur intentions.
but on the other hand what if the spontaneity u are pursuing from the ex is no longer there? what are u gonna do? i think u should consider all angles bfore making any decision u might regret. good luck
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