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writes:Hi I am really bummed out cause the guy I started dating for about 2 months is going to move out of the country and go back to his. I know we have not been dating very long but I really like this guy and started to get feelings for him so this sucks. He said he didn't plan on this happening but family issues are making him go back and he is not sure if or when he will return. So I'm really bummed and sad. Anyways my question is he is leaving in a month should I break off the ties now so I don't get more attached and my heart break hurt more or should I still hang around him for the rest of the time he is here like he is saying he wants ? I'm trying to think whats less painfull for me. He says who knows maybe we will see each other agian and if not we should enjoy the time we have together. I don't know what to do any input would help thanx Reply to this Question
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (26 April 2010):
 It depends on whether or not this guy is sincere. Is he interested in pursuing a long distance relationship? Would you consider it? Would he be willing to come back to USA and visit you? Would you be willing to relocate to his country? Once he goes back to his own country, see if he initiates contact with you and meets you halfway.
If you really love him, and he wants this to work as much as you do, then your love is worth fighting for. If he doesn't take you seriously, I would move on.
Where is this guy from, anyway? Just curious.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2010): once he is gone you will not see him again. He only wants to enjoy himself for the remaining time. My advice break with him and be very angry cause he cheated you.
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reader, Trans Am Man +, writes (26 April 2010):
 If you love him go with him. I Know it may be an inconvenience to you but If you really think there is a future with him, GO WITH HIM. If you don't you'll spend the rest of your life wondering what could have been, and there is nothing worse than knowing that you could have had something special and not acting on it.
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reader, It's all be okay  +, writes (26 April 2010):
Well you're quite young - would it fit with your career to move to the same country as him?
Or would he plan to return to where youlive when the family issues have ended?
If you can fix it so that you could potentially live in the same country in due course, then you could carry on.
But if there is no chance of that happening, then you should treat it like a holiday romance - just a bit of fun for now, that will end shortly.
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