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writes:I work closely with a man who is gay but recently he has been flirting with me so much that i dont know whether im coming or going. He stares into my eyes for longer than normal, looks at my mouth when i speak and just says and does things body language wise that say 'i fancy you' Does he or am i just imagining things?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2008): Think about all of the women who marry gay men and don't even know! I don't think there's an easy answer. I had a working relationship with a man who all said was gay, but he denied it when I asked. He flirted, looked into my eyes and gave me tons of attention. Seemed very interested and I was definitely interested! Somebody once said, kiss him and he doesn't kiss you back, he's gay! I agree....
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2008): hey keep me posted on what happens... again as i mentioned earlier my suit is similar except mines has a boyfriend...a really sweet and sincere boyfriend...and i always feel bad b/c when him and i hang in my head im like i think ur boyfriend is amazing and i want to cuddle with him...idk my suitation is a lil weird...anyhoo...good luck my dear im sure in the long run things will work out to your advantage!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2008): I'm searching for similar answers to your questions. I developed a strong attraction to a work collegue of mine. And read his body language (similar to what you described) as a sure sign that he was interested. He told me that he is gay, and others have varified this. I am finding it very difficult to switch him off and although we are still friends, I feel a strong chemistry between us. He hasn't fully come out yet, and part of me wonders what's the delay? Is he still unsure and are my intincts right? ... At the same time, we have to ask ourselves, even if the opportunity arose to be with these chaps, would we be setting ourselves up for future heartbreak with someone that is uncertain about their sexuality? And maybe better off turning our attention to less complicated targets.
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reader, candy00s +, writes (28 May 2007):
 He is gay - a lot of gay men flirt with women - they find it easier to chat and flirt than str8 guys (at least i think). You could mention to him that he is flirty with you - see what his repsonse would be. It could just be his way!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2007): I have some gay male friends, and they are terrible flirts, and quite frankly I think this one does fancy me, he is attracted to me, but he would never want to sleep with me....we have the same sense of humor, he is like a good girlfriend without the boobs, and gay guys like having another "girl" to be freinds with, that is all.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (28 May 2007):
 I don't think you're imagining it but I don't think he fancies you either. In my experience gay men are terrible flirts with men, women whoever! They don't have the same physical boundaries that there would be between you and a straight man, because their sexuality means you couldn't be together so they don't think twice about eye contact and touching your arm etc. Eve gives good advice, you might as well ask him if you're that curious but my instinct is that he's being a gay flirt rather than a gay man having doubts.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (28 May 2007):
 Say to him in jest one day that if you didn't know better you'd think he fancied you! See his reply.
Eve
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