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writes:Ughh. Guy problem here.Right, i was with a group of mates going to the park one day when we were meeting up with another group of people that my friend new.Amongst these group of people was this really cute nice guy and we got talking and stuff, when i got home he added me on facebook and msn i got his number and we were texting and talking since about a week and a half ago. It was all going really well and he was flirting with me too :\ but...Now here's my dilema. It turns out that his best mate is a guy i was seeing for like 2 weeks before summer ( i saw the guy like 4 times) but he found this out (not that i was hiding it because i didnt know till he mentioned it lol) but he told me and i was like "and it was only two weeks, we're friends now?" And he starting acting all off and left :\ now i don't know what to do. I havent liked anyone this much for a long time and it's really bugging me because i still like him what should i do?Say? Help please.
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reader, Nicole64 +, writes (6 August 2010):
Hmm, what are men like. Can never tell what they are thinking, but I think the best thing to do is, to keep quiet for a bit, dont text him till he texts you ect. Say to him before hand though, does it bother you I was seeing your bestmate, see what he say.. Then you will know, were you stad. Try not to get to caught up on this guy because you dont want to end up getting hurt. Just play it cool for the moment, and if he does like you, how you like him, he will come to you eventually. let me know how it goes.
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reader, Over..worried.  +, writes (6 August 2010):
 Well it sounds to me like, maybe you guy friend that you did date, maybe possibly still likes you? Cause since he's friends with the guy you dated it sounds like for the guy you now like thinks your off limits cause he doesn't want to hurt he's friend. Maybe just ask him if he likes you and why he do suddenly stopped talking to you as much.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (6 August 2010):
 Weird he's acting all off about u dating his friends, in which maybe he's thinking sloppy seconds, but u dated a lil bit and that was it.
I would send him a message saying u dated his friend forever ago and it didnt go very far and u didnt think about telling him because one it wasnt important to u and two its in your past. The past is the past ur more concerned about dating him and let him know. If he still acts all off then he's got a problem and gonna have a rough way to go in relationships. On a brighter note, ur not the problem, and ur dateable so back to fishing!
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