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He's flirty with other girls but could it be me that he wants?

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Question - (23 December 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 December 2008)
A female Sweden age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've been seeing a boy for some months now. I really like him. I think i he likes me too, but I don't know if it is more than friends. When we see each other in group with our friends, the other girls are flirting with him and he laughs much with them. He do much activities on sparetime with specially one girl there. (What about me...?) We've been in the city together a couple of times and so. When I and him send messages on to phone to each other, he's very kind and writes time after time that he thinks I'm kind, funny, nice and so on. But I don't just want to be like a message. I want him to be mine... Do I have a chance?

Shall I be more flirty and on, ask out or something?

Shall I ask him if he likes me more than friends? Shall I leave him alone and see what happends?

Please help!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2008):

It's me who asked the question.

Thanks Griffo. But I don't have so much friends, we're all like a group who know each other. That would be very embarrassing if I talked to them about this. I want to keep it for my self and figure out want to do, back of or try harder...?

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A male reader, Griffo Australia +, writes (23 December 2008):

Griffo agony auntnah, its more than likley he likes you, guys and girls do this to make you want him them more.. unless he's doing it without noticing, therefore he really is not interested... the challenge is trying to figure which one it is.

1) The Player:

while this is good that he likes you it means he may be a player and there will be more games to follow later once he wins your heart and has you in hs hands.

A) if one of your friends asks you if you like him say that your not really interested because he makes no effort around when we are a group, that would be fun to see his reaction to that.

2) Not Interested

he's mabey interested in one of your friends and you could be taking the signals the wrong way.

B) To find this out just start a conversation with he group of friends when hes not around... keep it all to yourself it will be tough not to break out and tell someone. you will get your answers that way... somone will ask the above (A)

3) He's genuilly interested. but affriad.

D) Ask a friend, a good close friend that wont say nothin. you will come up with a rough idea of wht to do.

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