A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I met this guy and his best mate at a concert last year that a mutual friend was performing in and we hit it off straight away. It was really spooky because I knew his family already so we had lots to talk about.He invited my best friend and I (who was also at the gig) on a walk.Then they invited us to another concert where a whole group of us went down and we all got squashed in one bar booth. The whole night he kept tickling me and couldn't keep his hands off me and kept stealing my rings. At one point, in a effort to stop him from tickling me I grabbed his hands and we actually ended up holding hands for a while without realising because it didn't feel weird!We used to chat online but he gave me his number and we've been none stop texting for a few months.The next time he invited us out we spent the whole time basically play fighting and stuff and I realised that I might actually like him.But then he told me about this girl he likes and I've been helping him with the situation. I'm not completely heartbroken just a bit upset as I still like him but I'm not sure if he likes me because one second he was acting all flirty and the next second he's telling me about another girl.So recently I decided that'd I would invite him out for a change but he was busy, since then the texts have dwindled slightly but I'm still really confused. Does he like me? and what do I do?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (6 July 2012):
I think he likes your company and he liked to flirt with you, but he has a GF so.. he he off the market.
I would look elsewhere for a BF.
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male
reader, no nonsense Aidan +, writes (6 July 2012):
His behaviour towards you does sound rather flirty, however it seems that it’s this other girl, rather than you, that he’s interested in. Perhaps he is now going to distance himself from you, but if he doesn’t, it sounds like what started out as a friendship is going to remain a friendship, don’t expect it to go any further.
I wish you all the very best.
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