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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Well there seems to be some patern with me and women that i have always been aware of, it seems that women do not like to talk to me about anything we are going out, why is this? I mean it's wierd because i talk to my guy friends about there relationships and it seems that when they start going out with a girl, it goes well they flirt and have good chemistry and talk forever, but for me it's diffrent, when i talk to girls and flirt they generally dont do anything that would seem to me that they like me, they just do things like look at me and blush and never TALK to me or flirt with me in a way that seems to forward, for example whenever i send a message flirting with them , they always text back with a vague answer and reply back with your FUNNY ALWAYS it always your funny with a vague answer so i'am like cool she doesnt like me so i dont think much of it but then i ask them out and they SAY YES, what the hell, this freaks me out and then i ask them to be my girlfriend and they say yes?????? where is the flirtyness and caring messages???? why is this happening i even tried to date diffrent girls with diffrent personalities and it's strange they ALWAYS seem well behaved on our dates and communication it's like a BUISNESS meeting always???? it THERE something wrong with ME, Oh also i'am a very hot GUY, i get alot of girls looking at me and they all seem to find me attractive, i kinda look like a cross between orlando bloom and francesco totti i have even been hit on by GAY guys often, they come up to me and say are you gay you look so hot and you dress better than gay guys i'am like no, so is it maybe that i'am to hot to handle lol, but i dont know, i get hit on by girls i dont even know and they send me texts and i get confused because when i date them it's all BUISNESS, what am i doing wrong i mean i act normal and maybe its my hotness lol, i also get hit on by teachers at the local college,lol so is it that, because i just dont get why they never seem to want to flirt????
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2012): If you see a girl you like then just chat to her as a human being, maybe do the odd bit of flirting just to let her know you're interested but make sure the entire time spent in her company is not flirting. Figure out if she likes you then ask her out and it shouldn't be a problem. I agree flirting is overrated, some people flirt and aren't actually interested in the person they're flirting with but they just naturally flirt, and then the other person can get the wrong impression and then complications happen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2012): Apparently self-confidence is no problem for you. Which is fine (to an extent) but you may be coming off as conceited.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 July 2012):
 I guess maybe it could be that you are intimidating to some girls and they go shy and quiet around you. If I were you I would not always listen to what your friends say about when they date girls, as not many girls are good at flirting. If it is a problem when you meet someone you like then just ask them questions and try and get a response out of them. However if they like you and they are interested well then why is that not enough? Flirting is over rated anyway.
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