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writes:I've met man 63. Annd Im 45. He helps me to get through my divorce. We get on well and I love being around him. Our sex life is great. We can have sex twice a day. It's amazing for his age. I really enjoy making love to him. It's highly pleasurable when he is pounding on me. But a year on now he finds it hard to do so. I dont want to leave him but dont know what to do. Please advise.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (11 April 2008):
 Hi, I think I've seen this question, or similar variations, with the exact same ages and problem a lot of times recently. I think you've had some very good answers here and in the past. Is there something more going on than you've shared with us? Are you not getting the help you're looking for?
I'm just a bit confused by the repetitive sound of these very similar questions.
All the best!
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (11 April 2008):
 The advice by "Uncle Phil" is good if his difficulty is maintaining an erection, but if he is having a problem with the "pounding" you mentioned, that has to do with stamina. Obviously, older men may not be able to maintain the physical levels of activity that once did, but can make up for it by pleasing a woman in other ways, such as orally and greater variety. At least some women who experience multiple orgasms via cunnilingus are content to be satisfied with a bit less in the physical department.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008): Ask yourself what you want from the relationship. Do you want him for the free counselling and sex, or do you rate him in other ways? Sex isn't everything but if you end up frustrated then it could become a problem, in which case you need to talk about it together and decide what you are going to do about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008): First off, a quick visit to the doc to get a thorough check-up, and if everything is ok and he's a suitable candidate, Viagra or Cialis or similar magic little pill.
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