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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey everyone, I am 19 and my bf is 26. Me and my cousin are in a relationship over the last seven years, we were having a great time, suddenly he fell in love with some other girl, one of her best friends but she was already committed to someone else and now she got married few days back but still he used to miss her. On the other hand he always used to say that he still loves me and really wants to get married. I am not getting all this, what the hell is going on between us? I thnk I should breakup because he loves her now and I know he can never forget her. Should I forgive him or should I realy thnk over it nd just quit? I really want to know your suggestions and will be very thankful to all of you who reply.Have a good day.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2009): why are u having a relationship with ur cousin? isnt that wrong?
u are very much a back up plan. Men dont like to be left alone, they always have to have the new person lined up.
I'm a bit confused with ur story, I dont mean to judge, does ur family know about this relationship?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2009): woah this is weird.
I think you need to talk. Let him talk about his feelings and you talk about yours. Find out what exactly is going on in his head.
If he says he's in love with another girl then it's best to leave him because at the moment he may be confused about what he's doing.
He maybe only saying he loves you just for a backup plan. If the other girl was single would he choose her over you? If yes then leave him now before things get even more confusing and he starts messing you around
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