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He's cheated with his cousin and gave me an infection! What am I to do now?

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Question - (15 March 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 March 2007)
A female Kenya age 36-40, *ismat writes:

i have been dating a guy for now six months at times we quarrel and he starts to compare me with his xgirlfriend and he's had sex with his cousin in the past two weeks back she had an infection and im now having the same infection is it posible that they did it again and what im i surposed to do plz help

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A female reader, aunt wendy United Kingdom +, writes (15 March 2007):

firstly you have to get straight down to the clinic to get tested do not keep putting this off as it may well be serious,secondly you should get rid of this guy he isnt worth your energy and he does not deserve you,if he truely loved you he wouldnt have cheated in the first place.good luck

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A female reader, Farris United Kingdom +, writes (15 March 2007):

Farris agony auntGo to the doctors or a GUM clinic to get yourself checked out. Everybody knows that any type of STD is something to be taken seriously. My second piece of advice is that you should be wearing protection, IE. a condom. Even within a steady relationship, it's a good idea to keep wearing condoms; I know that lots of people that don't have sex without a condom until they're married... No matter how long they've been together, or how long she's been on the pill.

In your case, you're in a relationship where you know that your partner is sleeping with other people... Why are you still with him? Are you really okay with being in a relationship which clearly isn't monogamous? You really should think about all the moral implications of this, especially considering that it's affecting your health.

My personal opinion is to get out of this relationship fast. I'm not even going to touch on the fact that he's been having sex with a blood relative.

Best wishes.

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