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*azzie1
writes:Is it worth givin a man another chance after he cheated 2x's been abusive physically and mentally..and I just caught him again sendin a gurl a nude pic of himself he's leaving me messages tellin me that he's sorry and that he cheated on me with that gurl in the summer because we were having problems and we broke up for a week..but he just sent her a text 3weeks ago..he said that he's been doing everything that he needed to do to be with me..should I feel bad for him or just forget about him..I just left him a couple of days ago. Don't know how to erase him out of my mind.please help am I crazy for even feelin bad for him
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2009): honestly he isnt worth it. i understand its difficult to forget someone you love trust me but imagine how many other great guys are out there for you. in fact i bet if you left him hed want you even more and maybe actually change. someone whose abusive and cheat does NOT deserve a second chance even less does he deserve love. i think your giving him more then hes giving you and the best thing to do is let it go. yur most likely too good for him .your showing him too much love while hes taking you for granted. watch once your gone he'll see how vital you really are to him. good luck :)
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reader, kaylagal +, writes (8 March 2009):
 He cheats, he's physically and mentally abusive, pliz don't ever get back together with him. You should be feeling sorry for yourself coz of how he has treated you.
If you broke it off a couple of days ago, it's going to take time. Just keep yourself entertained and busy. You will look back and laugh about it. You'll be fine, do it for you.
Good luck.
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