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He's changed for the worse since we had our child, what can I do?

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Question - (8 June 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 June 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i have been with my husband on and off for 5 years and we lived together most of that time we are young i moved in with him after i turned 17 and he is 2 years older well we got married about a year and half ago when i found out that i was pregnant. We have always had our ups and downs he has never been a very affectionate kind of person but ever since we had our child he has been verbally abusing me his whole atitude is changed he has even physically threw me around a few times he just seems very unhappy and i seem to not be able to do anything to please him its his way or no way and i really would love to have an affectionate kind of man but when i say anything to him about it he tells me to grow up what should i do because i really don't want a divorce what could i do to be a better wife?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2008):

i understand that you think that i should leave but i mena when things are good they are great but then when things go bad they go really bad so i really don't know what i should do but i know that when i go out with friends i enjoy the atention that i get from other men is this normal or is it that i am missing something at home?

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A male reader, Mr Tips United Kingdom +, writes (8 June 2008):

The best thing you could do as a wife is not to be one get out of this relationship asap, I know you say you love him but it seems to me that he does not love you. No man should ever raise his hand in any way towards any woman not matter what has happened. For not only your sake the your child also get out as soon as you can.

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