A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:there is this lad who i am very very close friends with, although i have never i any way made out as if i like him as more than a friend. however, about 2 months ago, when i was drunk he came onto me, i said no, and we carried on as normal, then i went home and everything was fine, the next morning i got a text from him aying he wants nothing to do with me any more, i felt he needed time to cool off so just left it. a week later i got another text from him asking to meet up because we need to talk. we met up, sprted everything out, he said he was confused and was sorry and wanted to be friends. so i left it at that and we carried on as if nothing had happened. that same night he came on to me again, this time i stopped him again and spke to him and sain i only like him as a frind and he said it was ok because ne doesnt fancy me either he just wants froends with bemefits, i told him i wasnt into that so he said ok and carried on as normal. this lasted a good few days, we were as close as we have alwas been and nothing was rong. a few days later he told me again he wanted nothing to do with me at all. after conversation he told me to completley get out of his life, so i thought it was best to. about a month and a half later he has gotten in touch with me, we met up last night, he told me he didnt mean any of it, and he really wants me back as a friend. he doesnt no why he said any of it and was apologising loads and stuff. so i forgave him, we had a drink in pub and then went home. was like we had always been. this time he did not come on to me at all, when we sain bye he gave me a big hig and said ill ring ya 2mra. so he rang me this morning, saying he should never have met up with me last night and for my own sake i should stay away from him. he wasnts me bloked out of his life and never wants to see me or have anything to do with me ever again.why is he being like this??
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reader, lienata  +, writes (9 June 2008):
He's in love with you.
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