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female
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36-40,
*angel~
writes:In 2003 me and my partner of 2 years decided we wanted to try swinging, so we registerd on a site and within a couple of months met a couple not far away from us. When we first met we had a drink and nothing else happened, the next time something did happen and after it I was online talking to the female half and she asked me out of the blue if I was single and her partner was single would I ask him out, so me being honest I said yes, nothing else was said, the next night I told her partner about this and he asked what I said and I told him and he said if I didnt know by now that he liked me also then im blind (kidding on like, just banter) So next time we go through me and him flirt like mad and end up getting off with each other when our partners werent about and this continued for a while, then we all lost contact until 2 years ago just before I was about to have my fist child and we flirted by text, then he said we cant do this your about to have a child, until 2 months later he contacted me again and we met up me, him and his partner but it was so we could get together, things lasted over 10 months nobody knew anything then I was drunk and text him one friday night and everyone found out about us, but we never cut contact, until I could not go on with it so we made the decision not to contact each other again, It was hard for me but I dont know how he felt about it and recently I had just got over it and had my 2nd child 3 months ago and he contacted me again, we messaged each other online for one night and now I cant get him out my head again, although since that night we have not spoken.What should I do??Sorry this is so long but I need honest opinions on the matter.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2007): firstly question yourself why have thing's got too this stage, you can't of been happy with your first choice of partner's, secondly what do you want too come of this situation,do you want to be a swinger or do you want a full time relationship with a one 2 one person, thirdly have you ever thougth of what this as a whole is going too have on your main relationship with your children bacause they are the only one's to the real question, who do you really love or is it just fun lust and excitement you want, i think deep down only you can answer that,
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