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writes:I got to know of this guy through my friend.We only met once that time together with my friend. Since then he hasn't messaged nor called, until one day he asked if I am interested in a movie. So we went out for movie and dinner. he told me he is quite an anti social guy, he doesn't like to talk to people, he doesnt talk to create conversatins,he doesn't like to put a false front to impress people, he doesnt ask people out and he is very shy.This is also what I gathered from the meet up. He did not do impressive things like how guys would impress girls on a first date, he is being himself and he says what is on his mind. During the meetup, he just follow me around while I shop, I feel like I am shopping alone and when I ask him he says he has no particular shop to look at. He did not send me home after the date.However he did make an effort to book the movie tickets beforehand and he paid for the meals. And after the meetup no news from him again. So now i am curious why did he ask me out about his busy schedule when he is anti social? what does he want out of it?How do I build a closer relationship with such a guy?
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (6 January 2013):
This guy is being very honest with you right from the start and that is a good thing. He is not trying to impress you he is just himself. So if you are interestd in him you would have to accept his Personaility as he is. Give him a ring for a chat and see how it goes . Best Luck. Nora B,
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reader, R1  +, writes (5 January 2013):
 Are you attracted to this guy? It sounds like either he is not that in to you or this is his personality. If this is the way he is you can't go into the relationship hoping he will change, men rarely do! So do you like him the way he is? if so maybe suggest another casual date and see where things go...
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