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36-40,
*sitsi
writes:i dont know what to say to my boyfriend.he is flirting with his ex-gilfriend.this what he said to her over an email."Y is it always so hard 4 u to believe me, am i dat a lie?? Anyways, am feeling bad 4 ya hornyness, where is ur man, if u aint getting sum from him then find sum1 is to give u dat.....lol!! I wud have made love 2 u, not fucked u, but made love 2 u, js as a way of saying goodbye 2 u, bet u wud have liked it!!!!!!!"i don knw what to do.and we have been together for 2years
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2008): omg i know just how u feel my boyfriend is hanging round wiv his ex and being nice to her and not my i dont know wat to do .
in ur sistuation i would talk to him ask him wat he ment by it then confront the ex!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!and if it contiues DUMP HIM!
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reader, Artistry  +, writes (26 June 2008):
 Hi, The e-mail, I am afraid, speaks for itself. Now, if you confront him, he will have an excuse, he was just joking, he didn't mean it, whatever. Reality bites, as they say, he is still talking to her and has not ended the connection. By the by, why were you looking at his e-mails, there had to be some suspicion, prior to finding the e-mail? So there were trust factors, already in play, as I see it. I think it would be in your best interest to suck it up, take the hit, as they say, and let him finish whatever it is, they have in common. He is not totally into the relationship he has with you or, he is trying to have it both ways. You and she. I don't think you want to share. So move on, I am sure your pride may be hurt, or more, if you relly care. But better not to be a fool, or to be disrespected. Find someone who can at least be true to one woman at a time. Go slow, in the future, but leave this one behind, if you don't want to be hurt more than you have been. Good luck to you. Be brave. Don't be afraid to be alone for a while, count this as experience, learn from it. You will be fine.
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reader, Sugarbuns  +, writes (26 June 2008):
 Yeah, he's a worthless cheater. Move your stuff out of the house and leave him the proof of his two-timing emails so he'll know just how badly he f***ed up.
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reader, Aeval +, writes (26 June 2008):
 Its simple.
leave him, he seems to still be hung up on his ex. You don't make love to someone to say good bye. You also don't send emails like that to an ex unless you are still involved with them.
I hope you find someone who will be better for you in the future.
Good luck
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