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writes: I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half now. We're still somewhat young and already have plans for the future, and for Christmas he got me a promise ring. Things were going well up until recently, He's been acting a bit distant almost like he's losing intrest, I've asked him about this more than a few times, but he keeps saying nothing is wrong and that he's fine. Still, things seem a bit off, almost like we're losing our spark and I'm so afraid of losing him. I've already suggested we take a break, not see eachother for a week maybe but he hates the idea of not seeing me. Any advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2006): dont see him for awhile that will tell you all you need to know
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reader, rammsteinfan  +, writes (30 December 2006):
 Congrats on the promise ring!! And I don't think that you have anything to worry about your boyfriend losing interest in you! He wouldn't have given you that promise ring if he was! You two are just falling into a rut so to say. Remember the saying, "variety is the spice of life"? Try something different to catch him off guard....like meeting him at the door in some sexy lingerie and have a candle-lit dinner ready for him. Something out of the ordinary....get some sexy massage oil (that's also edible) Get some sexy outfits for his eyes only (ask him what he likes to see you in)
Let me know what happens....and hopefully this new year will bring you two happiness!
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reader, Underappreciated +, writes (30 December 2006):
If he hates the idea of not seeing you, then the relationship isn't so extremely strained. I would not go for the break. Maybe just keep your distance, less calls, less visits...make him come to you and he'll remember to show his devotion.
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