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writes: I have been with my new boyfriend for 3 weeks now and i really want our relationship to work for the both of us, but feel that the trouble with us is that he is 15 years older than myself i am 36 and have only had a few sexual encounters in my life, he is divorced with 1 child i dont know how to explain to him about my lack of sexual experience to him or will he know from how i act when i am about him, we are both over weight, i have a medical problem which means i am about 7 stone overweight and feel that this is also hindering us.Many thanks and happy new year to everybody.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2006): Take your time! It's up to you when you have sex with him, you shouldn't do it just because you want it to work. Don't feel embarrassed about a 'lack', most men prefer women that haven't slept around. At least with you he'll know that you won't.
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (30 December 2006):
 If you had sexual encounters before, I do not think that your boyfriend will notice your lack of experience necessarily but it sounds as if it important to you to explain to him just in case.
My guess is that if you tell him, he will be more understanding than what you think.
Talk it through with him to put your mind at rest.
If it helps, a person could have lots of experience but it does not mean that they are excellent at making love.
My advice is tell him about your concerns, try to relax whent the time is right and go with the flow.
Good luck xxx
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