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writes:Hi, I'm bisexual and I have a friend who's the same age and sex as me who I have been sexually attracted to for several years. He was my roommate in high school for 1 year and I have never come out to him. I have fantasies about him and have been trying to get them out of my head for said several years because I'm 99% sure that he's straight. He is all I can think about and lately he's been angry with me for some reason. I'm thinking that all I want is his acceptance, but that's really hard to get because he's really shy and doesn't ever talk to me. Help me! what should I do?
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (8 February 2008):
 this is a situation i'm in and its a pain in the arse to be quite frank. there are a number of solutions
-avoid his company
-get new interests on your horizon
-tell him that your into men but leave it at that
-be seen to be uninterested(i mean dont be eager)
-see if it fizzles out or
-begins to melt on your toast and crumbs get on your clothes
enjoy your cheese toastie
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2008): This is a reply from the person who asked the question:
Because he is straight, I don't think that I'll ever have a chance with him. I don't want to try to convert him either. I'm attracted to him sexually and I want to stop thinking about him sexually. Unfortunately his friends are my friends and we're friends so it's sort of hard to get him out of my head. I'm just looking for advice to stop thinking about him that way. It's a really hard question to answer, but anything is appreciated. Thanks :)
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reader, davie  +, writes (6 February 2008):
Well if you want there to be the chance of something happening you could tell him you are bisexual and also ask him why he is angry with you. That would be a start and give you more to go with.
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