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writes:I have interest in a boy who, in my eyes, I think is perfect, we have the same interests and I think he is gorgeous! I know he likes me too. He is a Jehovah Witness and I am not at all religious, I also disagree with their ideas. If we fell into major love, I know this could cause problems with our relationship. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2008): Me and my friend are in the same boat as you, I've fallen in love with a Jehavoah witness and my best friend has fallen in love with his brother. I don't think there in too deep about the belief but they both study the bible; however we know they're perfect for us and if got serious we'd do anything for them but we won't change our own beliefs. Do you think we could make them compromise?
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (6 April 2008):
 Hello, sweetness!
I think that you are definitely very young and shouldn't be worrying about all this jibber jabber about way off into the future. Yes, if you got VERY serious and ended up getting married and having children, the religious differences would be really difficult and probably ultimately cause a lot of problems.
However, you both are still so young. Be friends with each other, and have a relationship grow between you. If you were to date right NOW in your lives, I doubt your religious differences would cause too many problems.
Who knows what the future holds for either one of you! For now, just enjoy life and getting to know one another.
xx India
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2008): If you are under the age of 15, I don't think you are going to fall in major love and run off and marry the guy, sorry. I think you might just try getting to know him better as a friend first, it doesn't hurt us to have friends from different religous viewpoints, it helps us to grow and learn more about ourselves and other people.
If you were to marry it would possibly cause some problems especially in the area of raising children and how to raise them, but adults can accept all kinds of differences in each other if they love each other enough to make it work.
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