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He's a compulsive lier, how do I deal with him?

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Question - (19 March 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 March 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I am married but our relationship lacks trust and honesty. My husband lies to me over the most trivial matters for no apparent gain. Even when he promises me that he will not do something such as posting childrens pictures on facebook, he will still do it and hide it away from me. If I question him, he just ignores me and gives no response. I have now reached a point where I cannot believe or trust him or confide anything with him. Life has become very difficult and lonely. Please help!!! Jzk

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2011):

I think its clear that communication is bad between you two and it stems from somewhere, that "somewhere" needs to be gone back and logically analyzed so you know why things happened the way they did with the beginning of your relationships issues and things could possibly be rebuilt. Good luck.

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A female reader, tcm Canada +, writes (20 March 2011):

I would not on the little information advise leaving,but he needs some sort of shock. Giving no response is the surest way of showing a total lack of empathy and disregard to you as being of no importance. If he refuses to see you as a an equal,it will be a case of accept it or leave. Of course you cannot trust. Its extremely difficult to trust a liar.

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