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writes: My girlfriend of 5 months has been pregnant for about 1 month now (we found out about 1.5 weeks ago). She keeps getting these mood swings, which really eat at me. I finally snapped today and told her I can't stand it and to stop treating me like shit, I've been doing the best I can for her. She keeps saying it's her hormones because she's pregnant. But as can be seen in my previous posts, the mood swings are a repeated pattern (almost bipolar in nature, but I'm not a shrink.Also, she always has to keep running around whether to go to her parent's house (for hours at a time), mall, to eat, etc. And I always get dragged around to go, and get frustrated because I'd just like to relax. I tell her with her being pregnant, she can't be doing all the running around and needs her rest. Plus the stress from her parent's house doesn't help either. I want everything to be good with her pregnancy, and she still hasn't let the doctor know yet, which I've been asking her to do for about a week.I just want us to have a healthy baby and to try and reduce are stress at least by half, but when I try to talk to her and she doesn't like something I say, she'll get pissed again. I'm scared cause we're having a baby, but happy at the same time. My job is on the rocks (might be let go in 2 weeks, still not sure), we're trying to find a bigger place(she lives with me and my roommate illegally according to my lease), and cash is always an issue. Any advice will help....
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2007): seems like you're just thinking about yourself here really. maybe you should stop telling her what to do and stressing her out just because you're stressed about your job.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2007): sweetheart not only is she all over the place but so are you, seriously get her to the doctor, You have so many things going on at the moment your going to pop soon, Hormones are buggers us women hate them as well believe me we dont no from one minute what we are going to be like to the next. get your girlfriend to sit down tell her you have booked an appointment for the doc as you want to be there for her and the baby and its time you all as a family got this sorted out. Its probably a shock to her as well that maybe why she may also be reacting like she is.. As for all the other stuff hopefully you will keep your job love and thing will all fit in to place, that is something i can say i hope works out for you, but your main worry is your girlfriend and your baby i do hope this has helped a little and remember you have to have some relaxing time for you to good luck love
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